The bad kind.
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crazybeautifulI just got in a tiff with my father. It wasn't bad or anything like that; it wasn't even a really fight. I haven't gotten into a mentionable fight since before Purdue Jazz, which was around January 18. Now that he and I had this... thing, I have this flooding nostalgia, the bad kind, which feels like it was from years upon years ago but it was only so few months ago. I feel like I could cry. I'd hate to slip again; there's no one to catch me this time.
The "fight" made me think of him. How he saved me. How my admitting that nothing heals me like he does further distanced him from me. I miss his presence. I envy his sister because she's naturally close to him. I envy his teddy bear for the obvious reasons.
If I could, I'd still be his shampoo, his quilt, his pen, his class, his spell, his blinds, and his home. And so much more.
I don't even know his phone number anymore.
My mother keeps asking about him; he's the one she likes.
But I don't want to be his.
I don't want him to be mine.
With him, it was a need; it still is. He is one think that keeps me going on. He's someone who'll always be or pretend to be proud of me. He'll never deny me. If he were to die, it'd kill me. He made that claim before I.
I do love him.
But now, I don't want to need.
I don't want to fall in love.
I don't want to commit head-on.
I just want to want. You know: the thrill of the chase. At least the girls know what I'm talking about.
I want a "nice" relationship.
"They look so nice together."
"They're so nice for each other."
"What a nice couple."
"Nice ass, hun."
"That's nice, Laura."
Nice.
I don't know this particular one that well, but we're aquainted. Today, I introduced Lindsay to a photo of him. She approved. I honestly thought she wouldn't. That's a good sign. I told her about his flaws; I worry so much about his flaws. His flaws, his superiority complexes, his egotisms. I fear that he is one that I am not good enough for. There is no room for my being too good for him. Lindsay said that he could be good for me, because "not to be taken offensively, Laura" I always have to be the "alpha female." He could be a new perspective.
Honestly, I still don't think that I have a chance.
I wonder sometimes how the world looks at me, what everyone thinks of me.
Do me a favor if you read this and know me: anonymously make a post telling me how you see me. Your likes and dislikes of me.
For perspective.
Be well.
*achoo!*
The "fight" made me think of him. How he saved me. How my admitting that nothing heals me like he does further distanced him from me. I miss his presence. I envy his sister because she's naturally close to him. I envy his teddy bear for the obvious reasons.
If I could, I'd still be his shampoo, his quilt, his pen, his class, his spell, his blinds, and his home. And so much more.
I don't even know his phone number anymore.
My mother keeps asking about him; he's the one she likes.
But I don't want to be his.
I don't want him to be mine.
With him, it was a need; it still is. He is one think that keeps me going on. He's someone who'll always be or pretend to be proud of me. He'll never deny me. If he were to die, it'd kill me. He made that claim before I.
I do love him.
But now, I don't want to need.
I don't want to fall in love.
I don't want to commit head-on.
I just want to want. You know: the thrill of the chase. At least the girls know what I'm talking about.
I want a "nice" relationship.
"They look so nice together."
"They're so nice for each other."
"What a nice couple."
"Nice ass, hun."
"That's nice, Laura."
Nice.
I don't know this particular one that well, but we're aquainted. Today, I introduced Lindsay to a photo of him. She approved. I honestly thought she wouldn't. That's a good sign. I told her about his flaws; I worry so much about his flaws. His flaws, his superiority complexes, his egotisms. I fear that he is one that I am not good enough for. There is no room for my being too good for him. Lindsay said that he could be good for me, because "not to be taken offensively, Laura" I always have to be the "alpha female." He could be a new perspective.
Honestly, I still don't think that I have a chance.
I wonder sometimes how the world looks at me, what everyone thinks of me.
Do me a favor if you read this and know me: anonymously make a post telling me how you see me. Your likes and dislikes of me.
For perspective.
Be well.
*achoo!*
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Date: 2003-03-10 04:18 pm (UTC)To answer your request:
I hate: your smile. Your laugh. Your jokes. Your fingernail. Your comical relief. Your chin stuble. And I hate your eyelashes.
I like: .look above.
Point being, you have no faults and no one dislikes you.
If I could figure it out, I would bold that last sentence.
Truly yours ;)
Senora Anonymous
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Date: 2003-03-10 04:36 pm (UTC)Keep the chin stuble on the DL!
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Date: 2003-03-10 04:52 pm (UTC)Almost six years have passed since Hanson stepped into our lives. Too few of us have been privileged to see them perform live and still there has not been a “real” European tour. We know this new album is the golden opportunity to make this tour more than just another promise in an interview. This is the time for Hanson to return the love the European fans have continued to show Hanson for the past six years. We’re telling them to stop hiding, step out of the shadow and get a tour going – and don’t ignore Europe this time around!
We know our work will be rewarded – us fansons have showed sceptics before that we can make a difference – and we will show them again. Sign this petition to show your support of our efforts try to get a European tour. http://www.petitiononline.com/canthide/petition.html. If you want to ask us something, check out http://www.canthidenomore.tk or send us an email at canthidenomore@hanson.net. Thanks for your help!!
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Date: 2003-03-10 05:38 pm (UTC)LAURA, you are pretty much like my in every way. The main differences, LAURA, are that you are better than I am in math, you get all the guys, and you sit to the left of me in English, whereas I sit in my own seat, thank goodness I'm not possessive. Wow, that was a skitzo moment there...
~*****~
p.s. We get orgasmic chocolate in a few weeks!!!
p.p.s. I hope that didn't ruin my anonymousness...
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Date: 2003-03-11 01:46 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2003-03-12 04:19 pm (UTC)You're always crazy.
And that's good.
Amongst the random-est people I've met, I hold you in high regard.
and you can play the sax-pretty-leee!!!
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Date: 2003-03-12 11:15 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2003-03-13 02:00 pm (UTC)that you're my fiancee
that we're gonna have a live asian ska band and that kyle's gonna be our imprisoned drummer (tee hee)
that we can be engaged and not be lesbian lovers just cuz we're drunken bastards and that makes us special
that you knew that ii'm an aquarius on like... the first day of driver's ed.
that we can fight and argue and you'll still my drunken bastard... but i guess that's what makes us drunken bastards...
that you were an awesome lab partner and i'm sorry i ditched you at midterm, but that was kinda inevitable on my part...
your music
your laugh
the way you threaten to kill anyone that makes me sad or upset... and btw you could do that to hood or magno or asher right now... tee hee
i dislike...
you're stubborn as hell... just like me!!! so i guess i kinda like that too...
i love you laura williams!!! why do you THINK i gave you that huge rock?!
oh p.s. i wear mine everyday and EVERYONE's jealous ;-)
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Date: 2003-03-13 03:15 pm (UTC)I don't know Magno that well.
I like Asher enough.
I could easily give Hood a beating for the three of them.
I love you too, Someone!
you
Date: 2003-03-13 08:53 pm (UTC)